Notes on Book: Influence by Robert Cialdini (Part 1)

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Oct 24, 2014

Chapter 1: Weapons of Influence

Key points:

  • There are automatic behavioral patterns in humans which can be mechanically activated and can be exploited by people who know how to trigger them.
  • Example 1: In the clothes industry, it is much more profitable for the sales people to show us the more expensive stuff first so we have a perceived value or anchor.
  • Example 2: In real estate, sales people show the lousy flats first so we have an anchor to refer to, then they show the ones that they want to sell.
  • Example 3: In the car dealer industry, dealers wait for price to be negotiated before suggesting add-ons independently so they can earn more.

Chapter 2: Reciprocation

Key points:

  • The rule for reciprocation is overpowering; for example, people give a "gift" before seeking favor. Some retailers offer free samples of their products.
  • The rule invites uninvited debts –Â for example, receipt of gift induces indebtedness.
  • The rule can trigger unfair exchanges.
  • We should also be aware of reciprocal concessions. A common strategy is the rejection-then-retreat technique: make a larger request that is likely to be rejected, then make a smaller request –Â e.g.: obtain referrals from prospects after rejection.
  • How to say No: Determine that the initial offer is a compliance tactic instead of a favor, react accordingly.

To be continued...